| Titulo: Why younger women want older men |
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Publicado: Monday 27 de April de 2026, 11:17
Article about why younger women want older men: Why younger women date older men, and how you can use this insight to attract beautiful younger women. In this video coaching newsletter, I interview Ashley Ayurveda, and Dr. Dominick D’Anna, who share a twenty-five year age difference, but love each other without attachments. Click here for Why younger women want older men Ashley shares what she finds attractive about older men and what men her age don’t do that turns women off, so you can avoid their common mistakes. Ashley works with Dominick, and they went from not liking each other when they first met, to dating exclusively, then to friends with benefits, and now they are supporting each other as they both look for love with other people. They dated for about two and a half years exclusively. They are two friends of mine who I highly respect and who just went through the type of healthy breakup and relationship transformation that I discuss in my book, “How To Be A 3% Man.” They give some great insights on attraction, dating, love and relationships. Why Younger Women Date Older Men. COREY: I’ve got a couple of friends here. Obviously, you recognize Dr. Dominick D’Anna of BeSimplyWell.com, and his lovely assistant Ashley. Ashley does Body Connection in Dominick’s office, so if you’ve ever been worked on and had Network Chiropractic Care… you want to explain what Body Connection is and how it facilitates what Dominick does before we get into the main topic? ASHLEY: Sure. Body Connection is just becoming more aware of your body. And then we work you up through the twelve stages of healing to work through stuck stress and tension in your body. And it helps maintain what he does, so it’s good stuff. COREY: And you do health coaching? ASHLEY: Yes, holistic health coaching and body work. COREY: So what does holistic health coaching entail? ASHLEY: More specifically I’m Ayurveda focused, so I do the Ayurveda consultation where we figure out what your dosha is, what your mind-body constitution is, and then from there you can more consciously choose things that are healthier and more harmonious for you and your life. DOMINICK: And it’s more diet based. When you choose things, you’re talking about diet. ASHLEY: Well, it’s everything. It’s diet and lifestyle. COREY: So, we’ll get to the topic. Why do younger women date older men? In other words, what’s appealing to you about dating an older guy as a woman? What do you find attractive in men versus dating guys your own age? ASHLEY: When I started dating him, I didn’t really know what I wanted so I wasn’t really looking for anything specific. But he made me feel very safe and comfortable, which I don’t think a lot of younger guys can do. Because he’s a dad already. DOMINICK: It’s the dad thing. ASHLEY: It’s the dad thing. DOMINICK: Provide safety. ASHLEY: Yeah, I felt very safe, very supported. That was the big thing I noticed and the big thing that felt good. Photo by iStock.com/Wavebreakmedia. COREY: So what does Dominick do that’s different than guys your age. I heard about a date that you had with another guy. He wanted you to pay fifty percent or something like that? Tell us what you experience when you go out on dates. DOMINICK: Pay attention to this one. COREY: Pay attention fellas. ASHLEY: Us women will generally offer to pay because that’s polite, but if you do not say “No, I’ve got this, ” then it’s kind of like…? COREY: So it’s a test. ASHLEY: It is. Well, for me it’s a test. DOMINICK: It’s all a test. She’s offering, but she don’t wanna pay. She wants a man to stand up and say, “No, I’ve got this.” He’s the head honcho. He’s the provider. He can take care of it. And there’s more. It’s not just that. COREY: The car door thing? DOMINICK: The car door thing or walking you to your car. ASHLEY: Well, I think the thing is that I just want to feel like they were being masculine, they were being the man. COREY: Being the leader? Leading the interaction? ASHLEY: Yeah. Also, if they’re talking the entire time and you’re just sitting there listening, it’s not attractive. COREY: So you’ve gone out on dates with guys that talked the whole time? ASHLEY: That was the same date. COREY: Oh, it’s the same dude? Photo by iStock.com/AntonioGuillem. ASHLEY: Yeah, he was just talking the whole time, I offered to pay. We didn’t even get food. We just got wine. I paid for my wine, and he paid for his drinks. COREY: And he picked you up, or no? ASHLEY: No, I met him there. DOMINICK: Wouldn’t you say that’s a theme though with younger men, where they don’t necessarily step up to the plate? Or would you say it really doesn’t have that much to do with age, just some guys show up and some don’t? ASHLEY: I would say that. I don’t think it necessarily has so much to do with age. Just, some men are being men and some aren’t. DOMINICK: Okay, right on. That’s huge. So, at any age somebody can show up and be strong, be grounded and be present. ASHLEY: Yeah, and there’s some older men who don’t do that, who would do the same thing as this younger guy did. Because he didn’t watch Corey’s stuff yet. COREY: Obviously. So, as a woman when you go out on a date with a guy and he just talks and talks and talks and talks and never asks you anything, how does that make you feel? ASHLEY: I still sometimes enjoy it if they’re interesting. I like to hear about them. But then afterwards I’m not really interested in taking it any further. COREY: And why is that? ASHLEY: I don’t know. COREY: So it’s more attractive to you if a guy’s asking you questions and wanting to know what you’re all about versus giving you his pedigree, his credit history and his blood type and all that? ASHLEY: Yeah. It’s more attractive if it’s more like a two-way street where we’re just both connecting and asking each other questions. But if it’s all me asking them questions, its’ like alright, bye. Photo by iStock.com/Artem Peretiatko. COREY: So you get turned off. Does it make you feel like he’s not interested in who you are if he hasn’t even asked you one question about yourself? ASHLEY: Yeah it does. COREY: Does it feel like he’s being selfish? ASHLEY: Not really selfish, but it doesn’t seem like he’s ready to move this into a relationship. If it’s just all about himself, I’m like, you’re not ready to connect with anyone. DOMINICK: So that’s what you should expect. This is telling you what it’s going to be three or six months in, this guy talking about himself the whole time — not that interested in me. ASHLEY: Yeah, they have to be interested in me. COREY: Yeah, that’s right out of Dale Carnegie’s “How To Win Friends and Influence People.” And I talk about this extensively in my first book, “How To Be A 3% Man.” Because making other people comfortable and acting like you’re sincerely interested in who they are, you’re going to ask questions. You’re going to be curious. You’re going to want to know. If you run into a girl like Ashley in the street, you’re going to want to know what she’s all about. You’re going to be curious. If you like her, you’re going to be excited and want her to know that. But if a guy is more selfish, narcissistic or he feels like he’s got to prove himself to a woman, then he’s going to talk, and talk, and talk, and talk. Because he’s thinking, “I hope she likes me.” Typically, most of the time when you’re on a date, obviously she likes you enough to go on a date. Most women go on a date because they already like you, so if they’re there with you, the chances are they like you. And the goal is not to talk her out of liking you, especially talking too much. ASHLEY: I do notice that a lot with them trying to prove themselves. And that’s very unattractive. COREY: He’ trying to make up for something he feels he lost inside. ASHELY: It’s not attractive. DOMIINICK: And it reeks of insecurity. ASHLEY: It does. Photo by iStock.com/hoozone. COREY: And then you start thinking he’s a little bitch? ASHLEY: Not that specifically. DOMINICK: We’re thinking that! Now she’s being nice about it. COREY: She’s being more diplomatic. DOMINICK: Yeah. COREY: Tell us what else you see when you go out on dates with guys your age. What are the things you see that turn you off versus things you don’t see older men do? Why do young women want older men Why older women love younger men Why younger woman likes older man Why would a younger woman like an older man Why do older men want to date younger women Why older man wants younger woman |
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